By  Heather Siebenaler

Breaking up is hard to do…but sometimes it is necessary to become the person you desire to be.  This applies to all relationships in your life.

Jeff Brown, author of “An Uncommon Bond” states it perfectly…”Many of us know the moment when a love connection is over, but few of us stop then.  I am talking about the deep intuitive knowing that its time to move on.  Yet we are either too afraid, or too stubborn, or too concerned about the other’s feeling to make our move.  But it’s perilous to delay, both because we suffer in the wrong connection and because we hold two souls back from finding the next step on their individual paths…”

I think Jeff addresses the need to leave and to move on so very well indeed.  If we don’t make the move, is it holding us back?  I think you know the answer to this question.  Who would you be if you weren’t in this relationship?  Who could  you be if you weren’t in this relationship?

Happiness as a State of Being

Only you have the power to make yourself happy. Nobody else can do it for you.  If you aren’t happy, take a look around your life and find out what isn’t fulfilling you and what might be holding you back.  If this relationship doesn’t make you smile, maybe … just maybe, it’s time to move on.

Another quote comes to mind as well  from the poet/author/speaker David Whyte…”anything or anyone that does not bring you alive is too small for you”.

So, what are you waiting for?  Make the decision to fill your world with the beautiful people in life … those who inspire you and support you … people who are positive and uplifting … not those who are doubters, haters and negative thinkers. should surround  us all.’

Street sign, let it flow

Make Some Changes

When you make this change, you will begin to see your life changing as well.  Letting go of people who don’t serve your highest good opens the doors and windows in your life to those that do.  When it is time to let go of the old and bring in the new, it’s not a sad time … it is just a change.  Change needs to occur for us to grow and prosper.  When we make these life changes, it signals to the universe that we are ready for something bigger and more exciting and we are moving forward on our soul purpose path.

When you let go and release these relationships, make sure you send them off with gratitude for what you learned from them and how you have grown as a person.  For if it weren’t for them, you wouldn’t be who you are today and who you are today is what is shaping your future, as you become the best you can be.




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Heather Siebenaler is an Inspirational/Motivational Speaker, Dreamer, Artist and Intuitive. Heather is passionate about helping others. She also infuses healing energy into her creative art, which can be found, along with her blog at She can also be reached at (970) 545-1268.