“At least 80% of all conditions that people see doctors for,
revolve around the autonomic nervous system.”
– James Jealous, DO

So, what does Dr. Jealous mean by the quote above? If in the last week you’ve been in acute or chronic pain, had difficulty getting to sleep, felt super stressed or anxious…then your nervous system is on overload.

Normally, someone would go see their doctor to get a checkup or a prescription for a medication, which is sometimes needed. But, there is a more natural approach to calming your nervous system and returning to wholeness. In this article I’m going to explain how your nervous system can become overloaded and how Biodynamic Craniosacral Therapy can be a safe, natural alternative to help get you deeply relaxed, out of pain, and emotionally centered.

Understanding your Nervous Systems

If you ask any western doctor about the nervous system, he or she will tell you about the central nervous system (your brain and spinal cord) and autonomic nervous system (parasympathetic and sympathetic branches). We think of the parasympathetic nervous system as the rest and digest part and the sympathetic as “fight or flight”. But, recent research has shown that we have a third part of our nervous system called the Social Nervous System. This part of the nervous system controls the muscles of your eyes, jaw, and is involved in being aware of your environment and present moment awareness. When all three are regulated, then we are able to easily deal with stress and overwhelming experiences.

My Car Accident and Nervous System Overload

Many years ago when I was learning to drive, I got into a few car accidents. There’s one that I’ll never forget. I was lost, made a left hand turn on a green light and was hit by a van on my passenger side that was part of oncoming traffic. We pulled into a parking lot and I went inside to a store to call my parents. My heart was beating rapidly, my palms sweaty, and my hands were shaking as I picked up the phone.

Afterwards, I thought I was going to be fine. I was wrong. In the years to come, I suffered from terrible anxiety anytime I was asked to drive. The physical impact of the car accident, contacting my parents and dealing with insurance left my nerves a wreck. To my friends and family I appeared normal, but inside I suffered from constant anxiety and my body was stuck in the past. I never got a chance to discharge all of that nervous energy that built up in my body due to this event. I needed a gentle approach to help me heal.

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A Gentle Approach to Healing

It doesn’t always have to be a car accident to send your nervous system into overload. It can be a stressful home environment or having to get that project done at work.

When we allow our nervous system to stay stuck in a constant state of “fight or flight” then anxiety, pain, stress, and overwhelm will become the norm. The body can only handle so much of that before things start to break down. Biodynamic Craniosacral Therapy is a gentle, natural approach that uses a light touch to help a client’s nervous system to safely release deeply held muscular tension, reduce pain, let go of chronic stress, feel emotionally centered and begin to heal from the inside out.

It was this gentle therapy that helped me to safely shift out of “fight or flight”, get my nervous system more regulated and heal my anxiety. It wasn’t an overnight process. It took commitment and me trusting the wisdom of my body to know that it could return once again to wholeness. By learning to settle and regulate our nervous system in today’s busy world, we can start to take charge of our own health and live amazing lives!


Nick Kidwaski

Nick Kidawski, LMT BCST CECP is a Biodynamic Craniosacral Therapist in Loveland, Colorado. It’s his passion to teach clients how to regulate their nervous systems, get out of “fight or flight”, and feel great again in their body so that they can live their life to the fullest! To learn more about his work, visit www.breathoflifebodywork.com.